BLOG #5: Horses, Reading/Writing, and Blogging
Not much has got done in the last five weeks. By now, the
basement was to have been sorted out, the living room rearranged, the
garage tidied up, and the rough work in the back garden completed. I blame my
lack of productivity on my busy social life, my time spent out at the barn with
the horses, my willingness to jump in a car and go off on a road trip on short
notice, and the catching up with friends.
Now that my mind isn’t chewing on work-related problems or
solutions to projects, it’s free to meander and wander and make weird
connections and so the connection between horses, reading/writing, blogging,
and retirement is obvious to me and, I hope, it will become obvious to you.
HORSES
I’ve been a horse woman for, ummmm, maybe 60 years give or
take a year. I’m not sure when I began my love affair with horses, but it may
have started with the piebald cobs that pulled the rag-and-bone men’s carts
around the neighbourhood. Yes, I am that old and yes, we still had some
horse-drawn transportation back in the day. Those piebald/skewbald/pinto cobs
were just Heinz 57s back in the day. Now they have pedigrees and go by the name
of Gypsy Vanners. Then and now they were/are lovely critters.
Regardless of the equid’s breed, unless you grew up in
Northern England and are of a similar vintage to me, I’m betting you have not a
clue what a rag-and-bone man was? Think recycling. If you’d like to have a
little bit of information on English history, check out this link: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rag-and-bone_man
and check out the lovely horse in the bottom right image. Rag-and-bone men and
their horses were an everyday occurrence back in 1950s/1960s northern England.
But where I first got a taste of riding equids can only have been on the
donkeys on either the Blackpool sands or the Morecombe sands. https://www.bing.com/videos/search?q=blackpool+beaach+and+donkey+rides&view=detail&mid=14EAA687F4B27CDCDD7A14EAA687F4B27CDCDD7A&FORM=VIRE. A hard life for the donkeys, but great fun for
kids.
The love affair began and continues.
A week or so ago I was at the Charlotte Dujardin clinic at
Rocky Mountain Show Jumping (Anderson’s place just south of Spruce Meadows). I
reminded myself that even though I couldn’t achieve that level of riding with
my current horse (or any horse for that matter), I could still enjoy dressage
at my level, and I find that I am now (finally) content to be what the
Brits call a Happy Hacker (aka trail rider).
The clinic was marvellous. Charlotte is a great instructor
with an excellent eye for small details and small tweaks that make a big
difference in performance. I aspire to be that kind of teacher when or if I
find myself back in a classroom (face-to-face or online). I was also impressed
with Charlotte’s ability to talk non-stop for about six hours . . . and I
enjoyed her British humour and sarcasm (which I can only assume she toned down
for her Canadian audience). There were a few ladies-who-lunched in the 99%
female audience, but most were horsey folks who had shown up looking like
horsey Calgarians. Remember my concerns about how to dress for this event and
settling on well-creased jeans and lipstick? I needn’t have worried and most
folks were in jeans (and many crumpled rather than deliberately creased).
Attending clinics such as Charlotte’s and watching young
women coming up through the ranks in their sports reminded me that I have not
always felt so confident and comfortable with my acceptance of being a recreational
rider. There have been many times when I have seriously questioned what the
heck I am doing having any aspirations around riding and working with horses.
Many of those times involve nasty tumbles and ending up in hospital, but two
times do stand out. When I was 21, in Vienna, Austria, I watching the Spanish
Riding School horses perform and I was ready to just give up because I’d never
be able to work with a horse at that level (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spanish_Riding_School).
Another time I was around 25 y.o. in the Sydney, Australia, area riding in the
Outback and I watched a cowboy gallop his horse down a steep incline. Nope. Not
me – and I thought I knew how to ride. Think that iconic scene from The Man
from Snowy River where the dashingly-handsome cowboy rides his lovely dun
horse down the mountain side (https://www.bing.com/videos/search?q=the+man+from+snowy+river+with+poem+and+music&view=detail&mid=4B17184615BF031076894B17184615BF03107689&FORM=VIRE
– just watch from 2:39 to 3:09).
And the connection to retirement? I now have the leisure to
ride during the week rather than trying to cram all my horsey stuff into the
weekend because, well, I was always too pooped after work to drive out to
Cochrane. Many of the folks at the barn are retired and so there’s always
someone to hang out with and ride with. Hasty is now a well-seasoned 24 y.o.;
and although our first eight years were a bit rocky, we’ve now been
together about 16 years so we know each other very well and work together very
well.
And so while Hasty’s more mellow than he was as a youngster,
he is also 24 and getting just a little stiff. Just as I’ve moved into
semi-retirement from paid work, Hasty’s
moving into semi-retirement as a riding horse. . . and so more of my efforts
can go into my hubby’s (David Thompson) young Icelandic gelding, Bear.
READING/WRITING
Just as I’ve always been a horse woman, I’ve always been a
writer. Not that I think for one moment that I have the Great Canadian Novel in
me, but I do think there are writings yet to emerge from me that may delight,
entertain, inform. And not that business writing isn’t creative – drafting and
honing proposals, reports, and workplace memos is indeed a creative process.
Now that the stress of being in the paid workforce is leaving my mind and my
body I find I have the energy to think creatively and to write. I am delighted
to discover that I still have a desire to write especially as I thought I’d
lost that desire completely. My scribble book of ideas is being well scribbled
. . . so who knows where that will take me.
I’m hatching ideas for a children’s book (horse related,
naturally) – and this is something I would not have had the intellectual
energy to consider even five weeks ago. So, I’m right on target, right? Don’t
many retirees say they want to write?
And reading? Well, two to four books/week depending on how
busy I was at work and whether or not I was on vacation . . . plus at least one
horse magazine and at least one technical document usually related to teaching
or curriculum design. The more one reads, I find, the better one writes. One
can learn from other writers about how to elegantly craft sentences, cleverly
manipulate meaning through carefully placed punctuation, evoking emotion though
carefully places words and phrases and images. It helps, too, I find, to move
out of one’s favourite genre (for me that mystery novels) and into other areas.
S.t.r.e.t.c.h.i.n.g. one’s ideas. I was ruminating on the connection between
reading and writing this morning as I was sipping my tea on the kitchen deck.
Of course, reading may also be a contributing factor to none of the housework
and reorganization getting done.
BLOGGING
Remember that technology basically hates me. To borrow an
expression from a friend, I am a techno peasant (or digital immigrant if
you want a more official term). My computer
spends its down time plotting how to thwart and frustrate me (seriously). Until
a couple of weeks ago, what I knew about blogging could fit on the head of a
pin with plenty of room to spare. But with my niece Katherine and friend Marian
as my guides, I managed to get started. If you sense a rabbit hole coming up,
you’d be right. Now I want to figure out at least one more blog and I want to
figure out how to make money from that one. Apparently it’s possible (who
knew!?) Thank heavens for the library and the Dummies series of help books
because they are my guides on this venture. Thanks to Dummies, I've now learnt how to add photographs.
My growing knowledge, which is easy
to grow when one starts from zero, is leading to all sorts of ideas popping up.
The connection to retirement? Well, I think there’s one blog about retired gals
and their geriatric horses in the making.
Miscellaneous:
Added to the ever-growing list of things I can do as a
retiree is going off on all-day field trips midweek. The latest one was to
Rowley (a ghost town near Drumheller, Albert), where I met the delightfully
chatty 10 y.o. Jesse who happens to be the great, great, grandson of the
original owner of the livery barn. Well worth the trip, especially if one is a
photographer. Cross country (a very pleasant trip this time of year) about 2.5
– 3.0 hours from west Calgary. https://www.bing.com/images/search?q=rowley%2c+alberta&qpvt=rowley%2c+alberta&FORM=IGRE
Remember I said that I’m unlikely to be successful as a
fully retired person? Well, I applied for a job as an enumerator with the
government. Stay tuned on that one. And I’ve been invited to co-author a couple
of education-related articles . . . so it would seem that work and I aren’t
quite done with each other yet.
I just finished reading a novel set in 1901 Edinburgh and,
for no reason I’m aware of, an old expression popped into my mind: “You’ll be
right as nine pence.” Which caused me to wonder what is so magical about nine
pence (this is in the old British currency) and what was the problem with eight
pence and ten pence. Any ideas? . . . and as for me, I’m right as nine pence
myself and off to be a gopher at the Working Equitation show this weekend in
Cochrane. J
Can't wait to see what you produce!
ReplyDeleteLoving your posts, Chris!
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